I am not sure if you are aware of Sarah and Hannah. They are two ladies in the bible that could not have kids. Each one did eventually have a child, but unfortunately that is not to say God does that for us.
We see a little bit of Hannah's struggle and we see Sarah try to give her husband a child through "other means", but you can not see the pain that they felt and I am not sure I can put in to words that pain or frustration. I can only share some of my experience and hope it helps you. Each experience in this area is so personal and so different. I just hope you know, you are not alone...
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Here are some good books:
Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Tony Reschler
A great book for women having trouble getting pregnant when there are no apparent medical or physical problems.
Empty Womb, Aching Heart: Hope and Help for those struggling with Infertility by Marlo Schalesky
I am not a huge fan of the title but the book was good for me to read how others have dealt with this problem and how God had given them hope in a horribly hard time.
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